I don't know how folks...women...single moms....do it. But somehow I am, and I'm always amazed when I get through the day without losing it. Well the last couple of days, I have...I've ended the day in full blown tears. Just balling...when the day is over...and I finally have time to breathe...or in this case, cry.… Continue reading …feeling overwhelmed
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…being afraid
Hey folks! Well it's Inauguration Day and like most people, I'm terrified of what's to come. I mean, in no way am I a political wiz or understand much concerning it. But I do know the difference between right & wrong (most days anyway!) and how others should be treated. This week, I've taught my… Continue reading …being afraid
…co-parenting
Hey folks, I debated going into this topic only because Ky's T.O.P (The Other Person) and I haven't always seen eye-to-eye and I really don't want to paint him in a negative light. So keep that in mind while I still go forth with this anyway, K? When I pictured myself having kids (like in… Continue reading …co-parenting
…setting goals
Hey folks! Happy New Year! I just wanted to share a few quick "revelations" I had at the end of 2016. It is NOT weak of me to ask for help: All my life I've been the type to just want to do things on my own and not bother asking others for help… Continue reading …setting goals
…spending time
Hey folks! So here in NC, we have been snowed in for the weekend and the next two days (Yippee! Because my lesson plans weren't done anyway! Ha!) But that also means Ky and I have been inside...ALL....FLIPPIN...DAY. "Why don't you take her out in the snow??" you say? She gave me this look... And… Continue reading …spending time
…having regrets
Hey folks, This time of year always leaves me in such mixed feelings. So this December, my dad would have been 55 years young. He transitioned from this world 7 years ago. So December (and June) have always been months where my depression peaks its little head ever so often and all I want to… Continue reading …having regrets
…saving my pockets
Hey Ashley what are you doing for Ky's birthday? What are you getting her for Christmas? Are you going to visit your family in NY? FL? Are you going to take Ky to Barbados? Guyana? Don't you think Ky needs this or that? Blah Blah Blah. Folks, I don't know how many times I need… Continue reading …saving my pockets
…dealing with postpartum
Hey folks! The inevitable topic. Postpartum. During my pregnancy, I read books...ok, glanced through books and posts. And I read a little about postpartum. All I could really remember is that sometimes it will happen and other times, not so much. So I came to the conclusion that it just wasn't something to worry about.… Continue reading …dealing with postpartum
…saying ‘no’ to holiday traveling
Hey folks! Happy Holidays! That great time of year where everyone travels to see loved ones and dread sitting next to the family with the baby/toddler screaming their heads off the entire ride there. Ahhh! Well here's my early gift to you wonderful people traveling: Ky and I are keeping our butts home in good ole… Continue reading …saying ‘no’ to holiday traveling
…treasuring moments
Hey folks! I know I come on here and sulk about my life choices and vent about slashing the tires of the people who work my nerves (disclaimer: kidding) but really motherhood is not that bad. I enjoy the heck out of nap time and bedtime. Like that is E V E R Y T H… Continue reading …treasuring moments
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